JAY-Z is
opening up about how
his marriage survived scandal.
In an extensive new interview with T: The New
York Times Style Magazine, the famed rapper offered a rare glimpse inside his
private world with wife Beyoncé,
admitting to past infidelity, revealing his state of mind leading up to the
infamous transgression and sharing how the power couple pieced their
relationship back together.
“You know, most people walk away, and like divorce
rate is like 50 percent or something ’cause most people can’t see themselves.
The hardest thing is seeing pain on someone’s face that you caused, and then
have to deal with yourself,” he told the outlet. “So, you know, most people
don’t want to do that. You don’t want to look inside yourself. And so you
walk away.”
JAY-Z never walked away from his own marriage, but
it hasn’t always been easy.
Since 2013, the musician has been dogged by
cheating rumors, which were only compounded by the news of his notorious
2014 #elevatorgate squabble with sister-in-law Solange after the Met Gala.
Beyoncé more than hinted at marital strife on her 2016 adultery-fueled
visual album Lemonade — and JAY-Z finally alluded to being unfaithful on
the title track of his latest album, 4:44, released in June.
JAY-Z, 47, told T that therapy helped him
look inward.
“I grew so much from the experience,” the rapper
(born Shawn Carter) said. “But I think the most important thing I got is that
everything is connected. Every emotion is connected and it comes from
somewhere. And just being aware of it. Being aware of it in everyday life puts
you at such a … you’re at such an advantage.”
The artist — nominated for
eight awards at the 2018 Grammys — said he built up walls due to
experiences from his childhood.
“You go into survival mode, and when you go into
survival mode what happen? You shut down all emotions. So even with women, you
gonna shut down emotionally, so you can’t connect [because of the way you feel
about yourself],” he said. “In my case, like it’s, it’s deep. And then all the
things happen from there: infidelity …”
JAY-Z acknowledged problems in their relationship
informed both Lemonade and 4:44.
“We were using our art almost like a therapy
session,” he said of the music, adding that playing the deeply personal tracks
for one another was painful — and “very, very uncomfortable.”
While the A-list pair were working on their
respective albums — and a joint album they had previously been working on —
emotions were running high.
“We were sitting in the eye of that hurricane,”
JAY-Z said. “The best place is right in the middle of the pain. And that’s
where we were sitting. And it was uncomfortable. And we had a lot of
conversations. You know. [I was] really proud of the music she made, and she
was really proud of the art I released. And, you know, at the end of the day we
really have a healthy respect for one another’s craft. I think she’s amazing.”
Today, it seems, JAY-Z and Beyoncé are doing
better than ever. Already parents to 5-year-old daughter Blue Ivy, the
couple welcomed
twins Rumi and Sir in June.
“It is not a secret that Beyoncé and Jay
had huge problems a couple of years ago. It was obvious to everyone that spent
time with them,” an insider told PEOPLE this summer. “There was always tension
in the air, but they both worked very hard to get to the place where they are
now …
They are very excited about adding babies to the family. Jay was great
during Beyoncé’s pregnancy and continues to be great. He loves being a dad and
Beyoncé seems very happy.”
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